How to break up gracefully – when to cut off all ties

Break ups can be mightily painful for both parties but the fact is that there are times when they are inevitable. Most people often size up their relationship with their partner only a few weeks after their first meeting so they decide to call it off. But to tell your date to stop seeing you is easier said than done! This is why you need to know how to gracefully break up with your partner without hurting any feelings or emotions.

Most people underestimate the importance of calling off a relationship in the right manner and that is exactly why they can end up in some trouble soon after announcing their decision to break up. Therefore, in order to avoid any awkward situations afterwards you need to send a very clear message across to your partner about the seriousness of your intentions.

It is preferable that either you hold a special meeting with your partner and break this unpleasant news personally. This will also allow you to observe and study the exact reaction of your partner and you will be able to quickly pick if your partner still believes that you’re either joking or that you just need some time off. Make sure you do it well and make the best use of words while telling your partner about the break up without messing things up.

As a second choice, you can ring your partner up and spill the beans in precise and polite words, especially, when you expect your partner to get a touch physical. In majority of such cases the partner who is at the receiving end of things seldom acknowledges the inevitability of the break up and shows highly volatile reaction. While some people tend to go in a state of chronic depression, others get angry and even start using abusive language. The key to extracting a passive reaction from your partner is to convince him or her that you don’t mean any insult, that the break up had to happen and that you wish well for him or her for future.

In order to understand the right timing to announce the break up, you have to ask yourself honestly if you really want to quit your partner or if there is still some life left in your relationship with him or her. In the former case, you have to make sure that you quit the relationship early enough so that your partner doesn’t get involved further. But once again, breaking up early doesn’t necessarily mean leaving your partner abruptly!

And then there is the unique situation, where actually your partner is upset with you and has at least for the time being called the break up against you will. You desperately want to talk to your partner to convince him or her to return but your calls are not responded to. Rather than frantically stalking your partner, it is a much better idea to simply accept the decision of break up. Whether your partner realizes his or her mistake and returns or moves ahead in life, either way you will be a happier person. If your partner doesn’t want to be with you, there is no point in pressing the issue.

So you think she likes you?

So you're into a woman, but she isn't giving you the signs for an open playing field? Sometimes you need to read between the lines. Ladies are not primitive beings and the signs aren't always so clear.

If a lady holds your gaze, laughs at your silly jokes or lingers for further conversation, then the answer is easy. More often than not, however, you may catch a woman avoiding eye contact with only you at the table. You may catch her giving you quick answers. If she keeps is caught staring at you or smiles often and flirts with you, what is the point of this question? Merely take charge and ask her out.

But if she really likes you and feels less confident with her odds, you must identify and act accordingly. Don't push, or you may intimidate. Play it cool and be very soft with her (even if it's in contrast to how you are with others). The kitten must be coaxed slowly. Subtly take charge. Keep the ball in your court because she isn't yet comfortable calling your phone or emailing you. You get the number. You call. You make the plans.

Be careful, however, not to confuse this with disgust. If you've expressed a political standing, chauvinistic viewpoint, etc, then you must respect that she won't look at you because she can't stand you. Cut your losses and walk away.

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